Honestly, there isn’t much on the sigma male. In fact, when I looked it up, all it described was the lone wolf so I guess I’ll be expanding on that since i’m a lone wolf myself.
Alright, here goes. . .
The Sigma Male is second in the hierarchy to the Alpha Male. However, the Sigma has a unique ability the Alpha doesn’t, which some argue might make the Sigma the Alpha and the Alpha the Sigma.
The Sigma has the ability to transcend the sexual hierarchy.
Meaning, the Sigma can blend in with any group of people whether they be Alpha, Beta, Gamma, Omega, etc. The Sigma isn’t concerned with dominance, leadership, or anything else the Alpha might be concerned with. Note that the Alpha and Sigma Males are different. One is not better than the other. They just have different ways of approaching life and getting the things they want.
The Sigma can do anything the Alpha can; in fact, in an institution with ranks and positions, the Sigma would be the second-in-command. Able to hold down the fort while the commander is away but doesn’t see himself as being a leader long term. See, the Sigma likes to do his own thing and is kind of a loner. The Sigma is the raven soaring through the skies in the dead of night, watching all the sheep go about their daily lives, living unimpressive, unremarkable, and forgettable existences while he walks a road never traveled.
The Sigma is a bit of a wanderer an, in urban settings, the Sigma is most likely to excel at having his work known while keeping his private life a secret.
Take Keanu Reeves, for example, a pure Sigma Male. He’s known for the movie The Matrix mainly and yet his personal life remains a mystery. Though it has come out that he’s dating a 46-year-old artist, Alexandra Grant, the reason for his choosing to date her remains a mystery. Keanu Reeves, considered “the internet’s boyfriend”, can date any young, hot supermodel he wants (like Leo DiCaprio) but chooses to date a woman only nine years younger.
Strange, isn’t it? Well, that’s why he’s a Sigma. He has the ability to do as the Alpha does but chooses to do his own thing. Who he dates is his business which is why it was found out that they were “quietly” dating; meaning, Keanu doesn’t want to be seen.
Alright, that’s my spiel. Til next week. . .